Integrity

What is that? Let's talk about doing the right thing.

There are many right and wrongs based on what #religion we follow.

What I often #wonder is how can they all be right when they are all so different?

Integrity to me is doing the right thing even when no one is watching. It is letting a close #friend of mine know when I feel they could be making a mistake. It is asking questions so their sub #conscience would help them do the right thing.

We all have our blind spots when it comes to #affection and often the closest people to us can plot against us or use us out of #jealousy or #merely for the fact they need to put us down.

For some strange reason they get a kick out of that and often we let them for the same reason, We say blood is thicker than water. though often it is a total stranger that comes to our aid when we are in need of #help.

Why do some people get defensive and not take quiet time to think why did something he or she said get to us, because they have a problem and that is them self projecting. Now who wants to define that?

What are your thoughts on defining wrong verses rights?

To me doing the right thing is not hurting anyone intentionally and apologging when we have realised that we have made a mistake.

It is agreeing to #disagree and #respecting one another, even allowing them to make that #mistake after all that is how they learn. It is keeping a #promise and not letting others down! It is being their for our children and doing what is best for them.

It is setting expectation and letting others know when we cannot be #present. It is saying no now and again when things are getting on top of us. We cannot be there for others when someone disturbs our inner #peace and that is why I prefer they took sometime to walk away.

Is that getting rid of the rubbish or is that #awakening them?

Are you anyone's #shadow? Do you tap people on the shoulder and say Hey? How about you see things through my lens or do you sit back and watch them fall again and again? What is the #best way?

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